Monday, November 28, 2011

Make up stuffs

The other day I happened to meet one of my so called friend's aunt during lunch and no surprisingly like any other aunt she started with marriage topic..And my friend happened to be searching for a girl by the way and he is looking for a naturally beautiful girl..Now you must be wondering what the hack is that naturally beautiful girl..Well no surprise but a girl who looks beautiful without make up that's what according to many people a naturally beautiful girl in India..

Alrite I deffinitely don't have any problem with what my friend is looking for but I deffinitely have a problem with this "naturally beautiful girl concept"..To many it will come as no surprise that many Indian guys actually look for this no make up beautiful girls. Alrite I agree there may be few girls like that who are naturally very beautiful and blessed with good skin..But does it mean that rest all who doesn't have a good skin or features they don't have any right to look and feel good?? Do they mean to be neglected and rejected ??

Now if a girl with little make up on looks more beautiful and feel more confident is there suppose to be any harm about it..Haven't all these guys who look for these naturally beautiful girls not aware that even Cleopatra used to do make up and take bath in goats milk etc to look beautiful..Obviously with pollution and today's environment girls skin might go for a toss..Hence for that reason only if a girl goes to parlour means that's all..There only all you guys will pass comment "fresh out of parlour stuff","let it rain than all the make up will go"..Gosh!!..

Now the hunt for naturally beautiful girls goes to the extent of not looking for girls during other's marriage day..It seems there will be lights and even a worst girl will look beautiful in any marriage function/party etc since she will put her make up on..It seems girls should be seen first in the morning when they are about to brush their teeth when she puts no make up on..Now is that humanely possible to find a girl who is brushing her teeth and a guy spots her and says she is the most beautiful girl without make up..Is make up is like a musk that it will completely disguise someone's bad appearance..kudos to Indian man really..

I have observed that in abroad wearing make up is actually considered as a girl is grown up and they attend their puberty stuff etc..Here its like a taboo..A girl if she wears make up and perfume means for guys it will be like she is smelling floral from two kilometers of radius and all..
More than often I have also seen guys saying that a girl who looks good even in the worst of cotton saalwar means that girl is actually born beautiful..what do you think of girls man?? A girl who doesn't do anything, wear worst piece of dress and still look beautiful is this actually justified..??..Every individual has the freedom to chose whatever dress suites them and looks beautiful in them is the right attire for them..Now you will say no no girls tend to hide their wrong flabby spots through few dresses..what rubbish..Aren't a human being suppose to look good despite of their faults..Is all human being perfect..

These are few thoughts that always disturbed me and number of times I hear from people such things my inner voice somehow never agrees to such bullshits..That doesn't mean that I am preaching Feminism and stuffs..This has deffinitely nothing to do with Feminism ideologies etc..But some thoughts just simply original and my views for sure..

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